Hip Hop Love Stories and the Construction of Socially Acceptable Urban Identities

Hip Hop Love Stories and the Construction of Socially Acceptable Urban Identities

I have researched and studied several Hip Hop love songs and analyzed the lyrics as text and poetry. In my research, I have found five common narrative forms used by Hip Hop poets to tell their love stories: contrasting, perceptual, spiritual, conversational, and metaphoric.

Hip Hop has historically existed as a male-dominated industry. Being a reflection of urban life and struggle, past Hip Hop artists have been forced to maintain a certain level of masculinity to be accepted by their urban communities. Old school rappers who talked about love were often viewed as soft or corny. Because of this perception, the existence of love in Hip Hop is a fairly new concept.

As the movement has gained support and recognition throughout the world, love has become an increasingly common theme in Hip-Hop music and poetry. However, the taboo still exists. Even today, Hip Hop artists and poets present their love stories in a manner that allows them to maintain socially acceptable identities. Hip Hop love stories must still meet the masculine ideology in which the movement is rooted to be perceived as real and true.

The purpose of this study is to analyze Hip Hop love narratives and how artists present these love stories to construct socially acceptable identities. I believe personal narratives are closely tied to the construction of identities. It is through personal narratives that people can recount life-changing events, realize socially acceptable behavior and create individual identities.

I have researched and studied several Hip Hop love songs and analyzed the lyrics as text and poetry. In my research, I have found five common narrative forms used by Hip Hop poets to tell their love stories: contrasting, perceptual, spiritual, conversational, and metaphoric. These five narrative forms are used not only to present the story correctly but also to maintain a positive perception among a society that might view this sensitivity as weak or disrespectable. I plan to demonstrate each of these narrative forms and show how the poets use them to tell their love stories while establishing acceptable identities.

<b>The Contrasting Narrative</b>
One of the most common forms of Hip Hop love stories is the contrasting narrative. Many artists use Hip Hop music and poetry to tell stories about the negativity surrounding their urban environments. The contrasting narrative allows the poet to express his or her love story as a contrast to this negativity while constructing an acceptable identity because that negativity is real and understood in urban communities.

A great introductory example to the contrasting narrative would be the following passage from Method Man’s “All I Need”:

<i>Back when I was nothin’
You made a brother feel like he was somethin’
That’s why I’m with you to this day boo no frontin’
Even when the skies were gray
You would rub me on my back and say “Baby it’ll be okay”</i>

In this song, the poet uses the contrasting narrative to show his love for someone who stood by him when “skies were gray.” He speaks of his love interest as someone who helped him get through troubled times, thus providing a positive contrast to his negative surroundings.

Another example of the contrasting love narrative can be seen in this passage from Guru’s “All I Said”:

<i>This world is crazy, she’s supposed to help me stay sane
Supposed to help with the pain, supposed to help me maintain</i>

In this song, Guru uses the contrasting narrative to share his view of what love should be. He admits that his “world is crazy”, and that his love interest is the one person who can make it bearable.

In “She Tried”, Bubba Sparxx uses the contrasting narrative to tell a story that recalls his love being there for him when he was in trouble with the law:

<i>A fly country girl, just workin’ them gifts
She’s my queen, was a virgin I guess
But I ain’t never ask and I ain’t never tell
But Betty had the cash every time I went to jail</i>

This song further illustrates the use of contrasting narratives to express love. Though the poet confesses spending a lot of time in jail, Betty was always there to bail him out, again acting as a positive contrast to his troubles
<b>The Perceptual Narrative</b>
Another common narrative form of Hip Hop love stories is the perceptual narrative. Like the contrasting narrative, the perceptual narrative is based on the negativity that surrounds the poet’s life. But instead of presenting this love as a contrast to that negativity, the poet uses this narrative to explain how that love changed his or her previously negative perceptions. This narrative form also allows the poet to construct a socially acceptable identity due to the acknowledgment of the negativity of urban life.

In “Jazzy Belle”, Andre of Outkast uses the perceptual narrative to tell of how his love changed his former perception of women:

<i>Went from yellin’ crickets and crows, witches and hoes to queen thangs
Over the years I have been up on my toes and yes I have seen thangs …
Now I’m willin’ to go the extra kilo-
Meter just to see my senorita get her pillow
On the side of my bed where no girl ever stay
House and doctor was the games we used to play
But now it’s real Jazzy Belle…</i>

In this song, Andre talks about a personal change of perception caused by love. He admits that at one time he thought of women as “witches and hoes.” But “now it’s real”, and he has a new perception of women as “queen thangs.”
Another great example of the perceptual narrative can be found in the following passage of Black Star’s “Brown Skin Lady”:

<i>I don’t get many compliments, but I am confident
Used to have a complex about, gettin’ too complex
You got me, willin’ to try, looked me in the eye
My head is still in the sky since you walked on by</i>

In this example, the poet admits to having relationship issues but tells of how love helped him to overcome these issues. The poet’s love interest helped him to change his perception of love and fear of “gettin’ too complex”
In “Ms. Fat Booty”, Mos Def further illustrates this point by demonstrating the perception of other men and speaking to his love on how he is different:

<i>Yo, let me apologize for the other night
I know it wasn’t right, but baby you know what it’s like
Some brothers don’t be comin’ right
I understand I’m feelin’ you
Besides, ‘Can I have a dance?’ ain’t that original</I>

In this song, the poet uses the perceptual narrative to acknowledge that some men “don’t be comin’ right”, but that he has a different perception of women than these other men.

In “Come Close”, Common uses the perceptual narrative to express how love has made him change from his old ways:

<i>I want to build a tribe with you
Protect and provide for you
The truth is I can’t hide from you
The pimp in me
May have to die with you</i>

Although the poet used to be a “pimp”, an urban term for a man who romances a large number of women, he tells of how his love interest has changed his actions and perceptions.

<b>The Spiritual Narrative</b>
A third common form of Hip Hop love stories is what I like to refer to as the spiritual narrative. The spiritual narrative relies on the poet’s characterization of love as a kind of godly being, spiritual force or royalty, often with the feeling that the storyteller has to protect that force. The spiritual narrative allows the storyteller to construct an acceptable identity by characterizing love as spiritual or perhaps even predetermined.

A great example of the spiritual narrative can be found in this passage of The Roots’ “You Got Me”:

<i>Somebody told me that this planet was small
We use to live in the same building on the same floor
And never met before
Until I’m overseas on tour
And peep this Ethiopian queen from Philly
Taking classes abroad</i>

Here, the poet uses the spiritual narrative to describe the time, place, and emotions that his love was founded on, speaking of them as if they were somehow meant to happen. He also refers to his love interest as “this Ethiopian queen from Philly”, using the royal characterization so common in spiritual love narratives.

In “Love Language”, Talib Kweli also uses a spiritual narrative form and refers to his love as a kind of royalty:

<i>Now if they call you out your name
Then that’s a different thing
Anything but Queen
I’ll go to war like a King</I>

This example shows the protection aspect of common spiritual love narratives. The poet feels it is unacceptable for anyone to “call you out your name”, or in other words, use derogatory language toward his love. If someone were to do so, he would “go to war like a King”, thus maintaining his masculinity.

In “Mind Sex”, Dead Prez uses the spiritual narrative to talk about love introductions:

<i>African princess, tell me yo’ interests
Wait, let me guess boo, you probably like poetry
Here’s a little something I jotted down in case I spotted you around
So let me take this opportunity</I>

In this song, the poet uses the spiritual narrative to tell a story about the introductory conversation he had with a love interest. He refers to her as “African princess”, once again showing the tendency of poets who use the spiritual narrative to refer to their love interests as royalty.

<b>The Conversational Narrative</b>
The fourth common form for Hip Hop love stories is the conversational narrative. The conversational narrative allows the poet to recite or recreate a conversation with his or her love and present it as a play-like story about a specific love experience. Conversational love narratives are typically characterized by introductory speech and compliments and are most commonly used as tools to tell a story about a first meeting or impression. These narratives allow the storyteller to construct an acceptable identity mainly because they often include many smoothly-structured compliments, and make the poet look like a cool ladies’ man.

A great example of the conversational love narrative can be found in this passage from Dead Prez’s previously mentioned “Mind Sex”:

<i>Pardon me love but you seem to like my type
What you doin’ tonight?
You should stop by the site
We could, roll some weed play some records, and talk
I got a fly spot downtown Brooklyn, New York</i>

In this example, the poet is reciting the conversation between himself and a love interest. As with many conversational narratives, it is based on meeting someone for the first time. The poet is telling a story about a girl he met that “seem[ed] like my type”. He then inquires “What you doin’ tonight?”, and follows with a list of charming speeches in an attempt to create a social relationship with the girl.

In a similar narrative, “Beautiful Skin”, Goodie Mob uses the following conversational narrative to retell the first phone conversation he had with his love interest:

<i>This is Carlito from a couple of days ago, you sound tired
Forgive me if I’ve called you too late
But what better time to relate mind-states?
Where could I begin?
Has anyone ever told you ‘You got beautiful skin’?</i>

This example further illustrates the use of introductory language in conversational narratives. The poet asks his love interest if she would like to “relate mind-states”, or get to know each other. He then tells her that she has “beautiful skin”, an often successful introductory compliment given to women.

Cee Lo uses the following conversational narrative in “Slum Beautiful”:

<i>Look at you, unbelievably, brilliant beautiful you
You’re looking deliciously divine darling you really and truly do
The very thought of has got me running at the speed of love
Exploring everything about you from the ground to the God above</i>

In this song, the poet uses the conversational narrative to speak directly to his love interest through the song. Note the wide range of compliments offered in this passage, as well as the charm, again illustrating a common aspect of the conversational narrative.

<b>The Metaphoric Narrative</b>
This fifth form of Hip Hop love stories is possibly the most fascinating. It is a metaphoric narrative. The metaphoric narrative is used when the poet speaks of love in a metaphor of some kind. The most popular and socially acceptable form of metaphoric narrative is using Hip Hop as the metaphor. Many followers of the movement view Hip Hop as a driving force of love and happiness in their lives. Thus, many metaphoric love narratives revolve around Hip Hop itself.

A good example of such a metaphoric narrative is the following passage from Black Eyed Peas’ “Rap Song”:

<i>Yo, she got hips to hop
And she ain’t goin’ pop
She like a record that I wanna rock
When I’m rollin’ in my ride cruisin’ down my block</i>

In this example, the poet uses a unique play on words and speaks of a love interest as a Hip Hop metaphor. He relates this person to “a record that I wanna rock”.

The group further extends the metaphor in the following passage:

<i>She like a beat that makes me wanna grab the mic
She likes the lyrics that I wanna recite
She likes the old school mic with the cable
You can bring your records and I’ll bring the turntable</i>

Again, the poet relates his love interest to other things he and his audience love, including “old school mic with the cable”, reciting lyrics, and spinning records on a turntable.

Another great example of the metaphoric narrative is in The Roots’ “Act Too … Love of My Life”:

<i>Learnin’ the ropes of ghetto survival
Peepin’ out the situation I had to slide through
Had to watch my back my front plus my sides too
When it came to gettin’ mine I ain’t tryin’ to argue
Sometimes I wouldn’t make it if it wasn’t for you
Hip Hop, you are the love of my life and that’s true</i>

This passage is unique because it utilizes both metaphoric and contrasting narrative techniques. The poet refers to Hip Hop as “the love of my life”, while simultaneously showing how that love created a positive contrast to the tough “ropes of ghetto survival”. The poet admits that he “wouldn’t make it if it wasn’t for you”, showing that his love for Hip Hop was and is a driving force in his life.

And that leads us to the most popular metaphoric Hip Hop love narrative of our time. In “I Used to Love H.E.R.”, Common Sense uses the metaphoric narrative to express his love for Hip Hop. He starts off the narrative with the following passage:

<i>I met this girl when I was ten years old
And what I loved most was she had so much soul
She was old school when I was just a shorty
Never knew throughout my life she would be there for me</i>

In this example, the poet starts by telling a story about a girl he met when he “was ten years old”, and how she was always there for him. The poet continues to use the metaphoric narrative to speak of this girl, including the good times and hardships they faced together. Not until the end of the poem does the listener realize that the entire song is a metaphor. The song ends with the following passage:

<i>I see rappers slammin’ her, and takin’ her to the sewer
But I’ma take her back hopin’ that the stuff stop
Cause who I’m talkin’ bout y’all is Hip Hop</i>

In this song, the poet used the metaphoric narrative to tell a story about the love of his life, the struggles she faced, and his desire to save her. In the end, he admits that this love is not a real person, but instead his love of Hip Hop.

The presentation of Hip Hop love narratives is a very difficult task. To talk about love and still construct a socially acceptable urban identity, artists tend to implement one of the five successful love narrative forms. I believe that our society’s analysis of Hip Hop music and culture is lackluster at best. The Hip-Hop love narratives presented above could provide a great basis for linguistic and sociolinguistic studies. Not only are they presented in a variety of styled narrative forms, but they also include deep thought, perception, and analysis of the urban environment that characterizes an increasing majority of American society. Through the analysis and study of these love narratives, linguists could come to a greater understanding of and appreciation for the Hip Hop vernacular, literature, and, ultimately, culture.

<b>Works Cited / Discography</b>
A Tribe Called Quest. <i>People’s Instinctive Travels and the Paths of Rhythm.</i> Jive Records, 1990.
Black Eyed Peas. <i>Bridging the Gap.</i> Interscope Records, 2000.
Black Star. <i>Mos Def & Talib Kweli are Black Star.</i> Rawkus Records, 1998.
Bubba Sparxx. <i>Deliverance.</i> Interscope Records, 2003.
Common. <i>Electric Circus.</i> MCA Records, 2002.
Common Sense. <i>Resurrection.</i> Relativity Records, 1994.
Dead Prez. <i>Let’s Get Free.</i> Relativity Records, 2000.
Goodie Mob. <i>Still Standing.</i> La Face Records, 1998.
Guru. <i>Jazzmatazz Streetsoul Vol. 3.</i> Virgin Records, 2000.
Method Man. <i>Tical.</i> Def Jam Records, 1994.
Mos Def. <i>Black on Both Sides.</i> Priority Records, 1999.
Outkast. <i>ATLiens.</i> La Face Records, 1996.
Outkast. <i>Stankonia.</i> La Face Records, 2003.
Talib Kweli & DJ Hi-Tek. <i>Train of Thought.</i> Rawkus Records, 2000.
The Roots. <i>Things Fall Apart.</i> MCA Records, 1999.

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